Self-Help Book

Two and a half thousand years ago, Socrates – the greatest philosopher of his time – sat with friends over wine, pondering the nature of love and passion. It was far from the last conversation humanity would have on the subject. Since then, volumes of literature have been written, overflowing with longing, ecstasy, and heartbreak. Whether we’re facing the threat of war, a grim economic outlook, or global warming, nothing can distract us – or save us – from the deep human need for intimacy. Nor can these challenges solve life’s greatest mystery: how to reconcile desire with stability. How do you wash the dishes when you’re trying to be romantic? How do you find and recognize your other half? And how can that person possibly meet all the criteria they’re supposed to? Because let’s be honest – we deserve nothing less.

Self-Help Book is a play for adults. For those who have known both ecstasy and loss, yet still believe that it’s possible – as rational, sensitive beings – to be both passionate and safe. To be unexpected, dangerous, and ordinary, all at once. Ten actors share a box of champagne – and by the end, they’re gloriously elegiac.

Tiit Ojasoo – Director’s Award nominee 2026

The post-performance discussion (in Estonian) with the cast of 
Self-Help Book will take place on 9th September at 22.30 in the café of the small building of Estonian National Theatre Vanemuine. The discussion will be moderated by Raili Marling, Professor of English Studies at the University of Tartu.